Here Be Ye Ten Chat Commandments:

1) Above all else, be nice and be respectful to ALL users.  Treat people as you'd like to be treated and we'll all get on just fine.

2) The site is for everybody - that means all ages; races; genders etc.  You are part of a very diverse site with different people who have different interests, so don't be a jackass towards somebody because you disagree with them.  Similarly, the site does not revolve around one person/group - it revolves around us all so do not demand attention which you are not entitled to.  If you cannot coexist here then it's best you leave as soon as possible.

3) We take a dim view on the following infractions - Racism/Racial Hatred; Homophobia/Gender Abuse; Bullying; Public Shaming; Attention Demanding Behaviour; Forum Post Threads Hijacking; Threatening Behaviour; Harassment Of/Spreading Falsehoods About An Individual Or Individuals; Creating A Fake Account (you will be asked to go on Cam in order to ensure that your Photo matches your Camera) and Malicious Communications.  This applies to ALL users and we will punish infractions severely - from either a temporary IP block to a permanent one.  It is fine that you do not like another user, but if your dislike turns into open hatred and hostility it will NOT be tolerated.

4) Please ensure that you have at least ONE face photo in your profile, and please don't be worried if you think people will be scared away.   Looks are not everything and not everybody can be Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, so don't feel embarassed.  You may upload body photos, but please ensure that if you add a fellow site member as a friend that you are happy for him/her to see these as these will become available to view for him/her.

5) We do NOT allow Cam Girls on here - there are plenty of other sites out there for you to advertise on, and we are not making a profit on here so why should you?  

6) If you would like to advertise an event or cause, please ask the Admin first - this can be anything from a BBW Social Evening to a Charity Event.  We'll post the event with the information you provide.

7) You are allowed to post links to your external sites on your profile, such as Outlook, Ymail, Gmail, KIK, Whatsapp, Skype, OOVOO etc.  We are perfectly fine with you doing so, provided that you do not mind people contacting you directly from here.  Also, please try to log in at least once every 28 days or you run the risk of your account being deleted for non-activity - we are looking to keep this site active and non-active members simply clog up the database and also give a false impression of how busy the website really is.  We would rather have 100 or so continually active users out of 100 than have 50000 members and only 50-75 members using it on a regular basis.

8) Do not link us with other BBW websites - we do not have an affiliation/affiliation programme and were set up in response to what (we perceive) as the general poor standard of BBW websites online.  Also, if you wish to mention us (and we sincerely hope that you do) please mention to us to people directly and do not spam other websites with links to our website.  Not only is it bad manners, but it causes ill feelings about us to develop.  In an age where reputations matter, we aim to keep ours!

9) Absolutely NO discussions about Religion and Politics - infractions here receive a permanent ban.  Also NO Social Justice Warriors, you are NOT welcome here.

10) If you have any feedback/comments/suggestions/criticisms then please email us first and we'll see what we can do to make these a reality.

This be the word of the Chat Lords!

AMEN